Savvy Lifestyle Magazine is proud to introduce a new segment for our relationship section: Savvy’s Most Eligible. Our first Most Eligible is a bachelor by the name of Steve A. Gray. Gray is a 33-year-old lobbyist from Vicksburg, Miss.

Savvy: What features/characteristics do you find attractive in a woman?

Gray: She definitely has to have an overall beautiful character and personality along with intelligence and practicality. Physical attraction only last so long, and I value more than just the superficial, but do not get it confused, the physical does count.

Savvy: What’s one misconception that women tend to make about you?

Gray: Most women that truly don’t get to know me only see me for my business side. So they think I’m all about business all the time. That’s not true, I can balance the equation. I’m just feasible and realistic on how I balance it.

Savvy: Describe a perfect first date.

Gray: Since I’m a nature boy, I love dining outside when the weather is perfect. A nice quiet candlelight dinner with a light breeze, soft jazz, and a waterfront view would do just fine.

Savvy: What will make you commit?

Gray: When I know deep in my heart we are in tune spiritually and the issue of trust is no longer an issue. We got each other’s back no matter what!


Savvy: What makes you a good man?

Gray: That’s a tough question, because defining someone as good, regarding relationships is so subjective and just flat out tough to measure. I can honestly say I believe “you reap what you sow”, therefore, I would not want to do anything to anyone, that I wouldn’t want done to me.


Savvy: How would you know when you’ve found the one?

Gray: That’s just something I would have to pray on.

Savvy: What do you like to do in your free time?

Gray: Free time basically consist of golf, gym, reading, church, visiting family, and hanging with friends, frats, and colleagues and of course relaxing.

Savvy: Tell us something that women would find particularly interesting about you.

Gray: I am very inquisitive.


Photography by Sterling Photography Most Eligible is sponsored by group and personal training staffer company Total Lifestyle Fitness.  Know someone you would like to see featured as one of Savvy’s Most Eligible email us at

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